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Avoidant Personality Disorder

When I look at who is creating policy in New Zealand, it isn't our politicians. 
It is advisors and bureaucrats. Where do these people come from?

They have credentials but they simply seem confused about what is right and what is not.

Bureaucrats' Policies that work against our health:

  1. Fluoride to poison your water and all commercial food production (Click NOW to sign petition!)
  2. Folic Acid mandatory in all wheat products
  3. Removal of animal protein
  4. Reduction of proteins and healthy fats in standard foods
  5. Promotion of carbohydrate products
  6. Allow unnatural products to proliferate the market such as seed oils, HFCS, and GMOS
  7. Allow increase fast food chains
  8. Allow and encourage vaping
  9. Increase prices on addictive substances, non essentials, and essentials
  10. Allow corporates to take over in anti-competition formats
  11. Pandemic framework treaty
  12. Increase EMF Pollution
  13. Mandates to take untested drugs
  14. Inflation created by Government overspending
  15. Elimination and restriction of travel
  16. Dilute community culture
  17. Demonise faith and history
  18. Destroy existing community values and replace with status and greed
  19. Eliminate free time by introducing more Bureaucracy
  20. LED lighting to reduce your sleep quantity and quality
  21. Failed hospital system
  22. Hospital food
  23. Failed diagnosis by doctors and nurses who are not fully trained but who believe that they are
  24. Dilution and misdirection of the education system
  25. Overload of children

Policies that improve your health:

  1. None

When I say that EMF is either a mistake or on purpose, that would also apply to all the other items above.

I know the WEF have an agenda, but I look at them, their faces and words, and can't see that they understand what they are doing. They do their deeds as if it was the correct process. Are they deliberately failing to see the other truths, or are they incapable of seeing?

These failed policies are either:

  1. By mistake
  2. On purpose
  3. The people making the policies are simply not functioning correctly in the head
This means there is a 75% chance it's all a big mistake.

I have lived with these people for a long time.
In many areas of life I see that they do not understand.
They are exceptionally good in one direction, very good in other directions, but in some areas they simply appear to lack any understanding.

They know how to argue, but if you challenge them in any way, they cut you off, lock in their opinion, and start to treat you differently, as if whatever you say doesn't matter.

Psychology Comes From Childhood

When my first and only wife, Annette, gave birth to our children, we struggled with how to raise them. We felt that our own personal upbringings left much to be desired. So after researching the facts, we took our children to Playcentre. We followed their advice and I think we did a great job. We learnt to listen to them. To be patient, and get down to their level. Smacking was not necessary as we understood how to talk with them. Obviously there were difficulties, but on the whole, it was a mutual process of progression.

However, a lot of people could not spend such amounts of time. Other parents were busy with their jobs, careers, studies, or simply confused, so either the child was raised at child minding facilities,  by nannies, or unfortunately ignored. After a lifetime of being ignored and undervalued, some of these children would be coaxed into higher education, to follow their parents example. I would see this dynamic going on all the time. The end result was always a confused child looking to achieve a release of their self doubt by attaining the highest position possible.

So how did these children establish their world view?

Some will develop "Avoidant Personality Disorder"

Symptoms of avoidant personality disorder (AVPD) include:

  1. Fear of rejection
  2. A strong fear of rejection that leads to avoiding social situations, people, or activities that involve frequent contact. 
  3. Low self-esteem
  4. A poor self-image and a belief that they are inferior or unappealing to others. 
  5. Sensitivity to criticism
  6. Being preoccupied with criticism and rejection, and being very sensitive to anything slightly critical, disapproving, or mocking. 
  7. Inhibition in social situations
  8. Feeling anxious and inhibited in social situations, and being reluctant to talk about themselves. 
  9. Avoiding new relationships
  10. Being unwilling to become involved with new relationships unless they are certain of being liked. 
  11. Restraint in intimate relationships
  12. Being afraid to share personal information or talk about feelings in a relationship. 
  13. Reluctance to take risks
  14. Being reluctant to take personal risks or engage in activities that can result in embarrassment or perceived failure. 
  15. Exaggerating problems
  16. Tending to exaggerate potential problems or misinterpret feedback as negative.

Avoidant personality disorder (AVPD) is a complex condition that develops from a combination of factors, including genetics, childhood experiences, and temperament: 

Genetics

One study estimates that genetics account for about 64% of the likelihood of developing AVPD. 

Temperament

Infants with certain temperaments, such as hypersensitivity, rigidity, or a fear of new experiences, may be more likely to develop AVPD. 

Attachment style

A fearful attachment style, which can develop if a caregiver is dismissive or neglectful, can increase the likelihood of developing AVPD. People with a fearful attachment style may have a desire for closeness with others, but also fear rejection and distrust others. 

Childhood experiences

Rejection, abuse, trauma, or neglect during childhood can contribute to the development of AVPD. This can include being treated differently from others, being bullied, teased, or excluded from groups. 

Family history

A family history of depression, anxiety or personality disorders can increase the likelihood of developing AVPD. 

People with AVPD may feel inadequate, helpless, and socially unappealing. They may also be more likely to have other mental health conditions, such as social anxiety disorder, generalised anxiety disorder, or panic disorder

A similar mental childhood disorder is Impostor Syndrome

Jacinda Ardern had Impostor Syndrome (she actually said so). I have talked to many high achievers. They all seem to have the same disorder. Is there a link?

Imposter Syndrome is a condition that can cause people to feel like they are not good enough or are frauds. Some common symptoms include:

Self-doubt: 

People with imposter syndrome may feel like they are not as smart or skilled as others, or that they are not worthy of their success. 

Fear of failure: 

They may worry about making mistakes, being judged, or disappointing others. 

Difficulty accepting praise: 

They may feel uncomfortable when others recognise their accomplishments. 

Perfectionism: 

They may feel the need to over-prepare or do more than is required. 

Difficulty asking for help: 

They may struggle to accept help or to ask for it when they need it. 

Negative self-talk: 

They may experience a lot of negative self-talk. 

Self-sabotaging: 

They may sabotage themselves before trying new things.

So if you are on the spectrum, should you be in charge of things or are you going to be 'complex' and only think of yourself?

If you have Self Doubt, how do your run a country?


I also notice facial ticks with many leaders
Can I link APD and Impostor Syndrome? Yes, they are part of Neurodiversity.

Being neurodivergent means that an individual may think and learn in a different way to others.

Neurodiversity has a wide spectrum that covers a range of hidden neurological conditions, such as (but not limited to) Autism Spectrum, Dyslexia, Dyspraxia, ADHD, Tourette’s and social anxiety.

For some people, their neurodivergence can mean that they are better at some things than many other people and for others, additional support or adjustments are required.






People on the spectrum react differently and understand things differently



This discussion covers the subject of Schizophrenia 

Schizophrenia is a serious mental illness that affects how a person thinks, feels, and behaves. People with schizophrenia may seem like they have lost touch with reality, which can be distressing for them and for their family and friends.



Have we become dominated by people who are on the spectrum?
Emotional instability is a sign of hidden trauma.

The Truth and History are very complex subjects


Why would anyone lie? Because it is what they are used to:

It was a lie wasn't it...


To a level where she believed it as much as she said it, even though it was Gold Standard, not true.

An imposter will always lie. It is part of the symptoms.
An imposter is a person who pretends to be someone else in order to deceive others. Imposters may do this for financial gain, the thrill of it, or to gain attention. For example, someone might pretend to be the sibling of a famous person, a doctor, or even fake their way into a job they are not qualified to do.

Impostor Syndrome is exactly that, and there are many in power who have the syndrome. 

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